Author Archives: Chasing Our Tales

Shopping is an Addiction (The Opposite is Not Deprivation)

A common prideful justification for spending money shopping: “You only live once! Won’t you regret not experiencing all the pleasures life has to offer? I love the feeling I get from buying beautiful things!” Most of us don’t regularly do … Continue reading

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Adulting

The usage of the word “adulting” has increased tremendously on social media recently. It’s defined as “to do grown up things and hold responsibilities such as a 9-5 job, a mortgage/rent, a car payment, or anything else that makes one … Continue reading

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Why I Don’t Budget

A friend recently asked how I budget and track my spending. I don’t – no budgeting other than a weekly review of my credit card statement online to check for any unauthorized payments. This is a thought experiment as budgets are … Continue reading

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I’m Rich because I Buy Expensive Things!

No, not even close. This headline sounds ridiculous, right? Unfortunately I see this idea portrayed too often – in reality, the cost of someone’s possessions tells you almost nothing about their actual level of income or accumulated wealth (see my … Continue reading

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Experiences Comes First

When evaluating a commercial or other advertisement, the product such as the luxury convertible or newest phone is almost always portrayed as enabling an experience: the luxury car is being driven on beautiful winding mountain roads, and the phone is sharing … Continue reading

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Treating Yourself, Just this Once

Thinking about a luxury watch or your first fancy pair of shoes? Be aware of the “Diderot Effect” so nicely summarized in this Lifehacker post otherwise that single luxury splurge may cause a snowball of extra spending. If you’ve ever bought … Continue reading

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Necessities Are Not Advertised

Imagine all the commercial messages you’ve ever seen or read: sports drinks, beauty products, luxury cars, 11-piece dining room sets, and the latest generation smartphone. What do they all have in common? They’re for unnecessary products or services. If you … Continue reading

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Stoicism – Not Just for Dead White Guys

A Guide to the Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy by William B. Irvine This post on the Truth. No Consequences. blog changed my life. It’s a long one – print it out, sit down with a highlighter, … Continue reading

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Minimalism in a Nutshell:

In a nutshell: How many cups can you drink from at one time? How many pairs of shoes can you wear at one time? How many cars can you drive at one time? Outside of a nutshell: This has been … Continue reading

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“The secret of …

“The secret of happiness, you see, is not found in seeking more, but in developing the capacity to enjoy less.” – Socrates Said no advertisement, ever.

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